Who are you trying to become?

I see you working to become somebody better than you are right now.

I see how you’ve been fed up with your situation and are searching for a way to change it.

I know it is not easy.

If it were easy, you would already be better.

Who are you trying to become?

Can you define this person for me? In detail?

It will help you see if this person is real or just a figment of your imagination.

I know he’s real. So describe him to me.

Listen, I know it is not easy imagining who you want to become when theirs so much stuff going on in your life.

Your mom wants you to be the ideal son. Your girl wants you to be the ideal boyfriend while you still have siblings to keep up with.

All while your coworkers, friends, and society tell you who you are and what to do.

Trust me, I understand. I’ve been there and it’s not a fun place to be. It’s frustrating having this feeling that you’re meant for more but you just don’t know what “more” is or what it looks like.

What you do know, is that who you are now is not cutting it and it’s starting to get to you. Slowly but surely.

Your mind is full of problems of your own and those around you which is plummeting your productivity and creativity.

You’re at the point where you can’t even think clearly due to stress and brain fog that has built up by trying to be someone you’re not for so long.

Where is your breaking point? Why let it get to that point if you could change it before all hell breaks loose?

Why let it get to the point where you hold back your emotions?

From not only strangers but the people you love because you can’t explain to them this feeling.

Imagine how you would feel when you can finally tell your family, friends, and people you care about you’ve cracked the code and you know exactly who you are.

Imagine how it would feel when you don’t feel like an imposter in your skin anymore and you’re not holding back your authentic self out of fear of rejection.

You would feel free, wouldn’t you?

You can 100% get to that state and become that person.

Follow this framework to get clear on who you are looking to become and use it as a blueprint for what you need to do to become them.

(This should take 15-25 min)

1. Take some alone time so that you can get clear and focused on trying to figure yourself out.

2. Grab a pen and paper and write “Who do I want to become? and why.”

3. Write every detail that comes into your mind describing that better version of yourself and what it feels like to be him.

4. Next, write out why you want to become this person and who they will benefit.

5. Then, write what you will do next to become this person. The “how.” (In detail)

6. Last, most importantly, what happens to you if you don’t become this person you created and who will it affect?

Now you realize how much is riding on your commitment to becoming this person, so it’s time to begin your journey of self-improvement.

Your family, friends, and even coworkers will notice how differently you walk and how confident you are when you talk now that you walk around with a sense of direction.

Your girlfriend may even start treating you with more respect than usual now that you have a new-found confidence in yourself.

You can even look in the mirror and be proud of the person that you're becoming now that you’ve taken action to become better.

The goal now is to become 1% better each day and before you know it, you will be exactly who you dreamed of being.

Thanks for reading and “Become Limitless.”