Life's a library and people are the books

I’ve come to realize life is a library

People are the books.

Different locations are the aisles of the library.

Communication is the key to extracting information from another book.

Let me explain

Would you pick up a book that has an ugly color and read it?

I doubt it.

Would you finish a book with a boring story?

No way right?

Would you read a book that says “Don’t read me, I’m a waste of time.”

Maybe to this one lol

But look

I’ve met a diverse range of people and some things that stick out every time are…

• How well they can tell a story.

• How different people’s communication styles are.

• How these people view themselves.

Breaking down these things that I’ve observed has led me to learn how to create not only and good cover page but a compelling story as well!

When people tell a story they want to feel heard and understood.

The more attentive you are, the better questions you ask because you are following along with that person’s story.

That is if they are a good storyteller of course.

With better questions, you can extract deeper layers of their story.

You also gain deeper insights into who they are as a person.

The deeper the insight, the easier it is to connect and resonate with the person that you’re talking to.

Next is how different people have different styles of communication.

Some of the people I've come across are very vibrant characters.

They often have large personas. So their way of storytelling most times, consists of lots of movement and hand gestures.

Learn how to adapt to how different people communicate so that you become better at connecting with all different types of people.

By doing this, you allow yourself not only to be open to new ideas, but people will trust you enough to open up.

By doing this you make friends and this makes networking so much easier.

so take the attention off of yourself and let people feel your interest.

The last thing is that you will be able to see how people view themselves based on how they communicate.

communication is more than just words.

It’s a physical presentation as well.

So when somebody approaches you and they are not well put together.

They’ve got stains on their clothes, their breath stinks, and their shoes are dirty.

Let’s be honest.

We judge them and it changes our perception of them based on those key things.

Although society is against judgment, we all judge people and things to some extent whether consciously or subconsciously.

Now on the flip side, if we meet somebody who is well put together, we are more inclined to treat them with higher regard simply because of what their presentation of themselves communicates.

This shows what people think of themselves subconsciously.

You have control over how you are perceived and your public and private persona so take control of it immediately.

You won’t regret it.

Part 2 coming soon but I hope you found value in this and if you want more content subscribe to my YouTube @LimitlessLifestylePro

Thanks for reading!